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sin and punishment by mechanicalmasochist sin and punishment by mechanicalmasochist
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.:Vent warning:.

It seems everyone gets to fall in love and have happy relationships but me.

its pretty depressing when you realize you are going to be 21 in a week and you have never had a real relationship because you are completely loveless.
hurts worse when you see people you like everyday but your to scared to even say hi to them .


I'm just going to have to make my peace with being lonely
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2852-8139-3580 Featured By Owner Apr 6, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
crawling in my skin plays in the background
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Whitesnowpaw Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
*glomps and clings at you* pssst, im there to love 8'D
Nyagh
Sorry~
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xDark-Ashesx Featured By Owner Nov 27, 2013
Remember kids, it's down the road, not across the street!
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Ivypool90 Featured By Owner Jun 20, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That's how one of my OC's is. Always alone, with no one to share her hurting with.

She's not a rat, though.
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S--l--N--A--L--U Featured By Owner Apr 13, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Same with me...same with me... *is forever alone*
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sightlessxx Featured By Owner Dec 15, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
such a good drawing
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dragoneye98 Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012  Student General Artist
that is ausome! don't worry you will find someone one day flight dont worry
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TheFelidays Featured By Owner Nov 17, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
aw*hugz* i no how u feel especially when u do luv someone and they feel deeply for one of ur freinds instead of u,just know that I'll always be next 2 u to catch u when ur falling into saddness.... :)
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MountainRhythm Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Don't worry Flighty, you'll fall head over heels with someone someday :)
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XxLokowolfxX Featured By Owner Nov 15, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i used 2 have thos feels bro
(not no more though)
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rosetheeevee12 Featured By Owner Nov 15, 2012
Feel your pain I dont have a love life but it seems my friends have been in or are in one or have kissed someone before
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WolfDragon30 Featured By Owner Nov 13, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
come here bro you need a hug you will find someone //hugz// and just know a lot of people rush into relationships sometimes its better to wait
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mechanicalmasochist Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
see I don't think waiting 20 years is rushing but...XD

eh maybe I'll get over it someday
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WolfDragon30 Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
>A> yeaah its not, but there are a lot of people who do rush stuff like that XUX like phill collins says "dont hurry love"
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ElectricReptile Featured By Owner Nov 13, 2012  Professional Digital Artist
human nature never is loveless but some humans just want to be for not showing their feelings.
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TheGirlFlippy Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012
Just by the picture the feelings I used to have already started to come back, yes, I cut myself and this picture is triggering, although.... That's not really a bad thing, I mean this is a vent picture and if it makes me feel that way I can already tell you arn't happy :( It's not a good thing that youre not happy, but the fact that youre venting is. :)
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foxwub Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012  Student General Artist
:'C Poor flighty.... I know how you fell... ur not alone...
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omgcmd101 Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012
It's okay MM. I'm a bit unlucky in love too. But I'm sure you'll find a guy one day. And, I think the guy I like might be gay....so don't worry about it. WHAT DOESN'T KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER!!!(voice cracks)
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AnimatronicHowl Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I love someone, but he doesnt know and I'm to afraid to tell him, also he lives like hours away, on a different island, so I dont get to talk to him :( I dont think he loves me anyways
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OkamiShiri Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I know I'm kinda late here, and though I'm just 16; I felt similar, seeing all my friends getting boyfriends or 'falling in love'. Then treating me like crap each time.
Then it only got worse when I fell for someone myself. He dated my best friend- twice, then a girl moved to my school and was literally like "date me or I'll punch you". I threw her into a bookshelf because she threatened to hit him after he rejected her, and he had to ask me to stop. Then same girl whined to me "why wont he date me"... SIMPLE.
Then he dated a girl a year below me.
Then a girl a year above me. This was the worst, because he told me he loved me and the next day everyone was all "OOOH HE LOVES THIS OTHER GIRL" and rubbed it in my face.

... Then a month later they broke up. I ended up getting with him. 6 later I found flirty, sexual messages to other girls over Facebook. One telling someone how much he missed her. On my birthday.
I wished I never went out with him. I still do, sometimes. And though people have said "why don't you?" I'm still with him.

I suppose every relationship has ups and downs. A lot of people go through heartbreak...

I was shy when I met him. Which is apparently, as many people told me, why he dated my friends over me and then went flirty with others. Anxious, scared. I couldn't even talk to him and look at his face at the same time... So I ended up talking to him online until I felt comfortable enough to talk online.

Honestly, you just need to try to step out of your comfort zone with these people you like. Whether it be real life or online. I was scared people wouldn't accept me for my previous depressive outlook, but that was the first thing I told him about me. And he listened.
Things can take time, Flighty. You wont be lonely forever, but it can be hard to find the right person for you. It can be harder to get past their flaws.

If you ever need to talk, we're all here for you. <3

P.S. Random fact... You and my boyfriend share the same day and month of birth.
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wightravenexperiment Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
it's okay you aren't the only one
i'm a totally affectionate person, but the person i love doesn't love me back
it hurts a lot, but i've found ways to deal c:

you're young- still have pleeeeenty of time to find the ONE, y'know c:
just remember: you only live once, so don't be afraid to be social :D
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kyoukokirigi Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
whoa.
i know that feel.
i put my relationship on hold with my girlfriend and it feels horrible because i need her in my life now.
i can't talk to her about it because she won't be on for the next two months because she got in trouble.
if you ever need help just talk to me, i don't mind c:
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TO-NastY Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012
Why is he crying? = ((
he is so miserable ....
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T-Pizzle Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student Digital Artist
Flighty, it's alright. I'm 14, and I had to meet my girlfriend on the Internet because I'd get shunned for being bisexual, plus no girl/boy i know in life isn't straight, AND without a computer screen in front of me, I can't talk about my feelings. So why not give the Internet a go? (Even though I can REALLY see you falling in love with someone else buying a rat in a pet shop hehe uvu) Just don't take it so roughly, love. It isn't worth crying over.
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XxSoaringHeartxX Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Student General Artist
I'll tell you this, if you just be strong about it, and never think about it, you'll be fine. In all honesty you don't need to have a boyfriend to be happy I think it's just the need to have someone be there for you that drives your, but you find that in friends (and strangers like me on the internet) for, you don't need a boyfriend in general, you just need a friend.

So don't ever say you are loveless, because the tons and tons of people who love your art, and everything you do, that love you in ever single way, no matter how broken you are. We love you for who you are, and you don't need a boyfriend to make you feel loved.

And you know whats funny, i'm only 14 but i've made my peace for being alone a long time ago, and i'm very happy for that, because it keeps me from becoming broken more.
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mechanicalmasochist Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
But
that means I don't get my happy ending, I die knowing I was never loved by anyone, love of friends and family is different its not the same thing as someone you share forever with... at least I think not.

Besides I've already decided my fate if I cannot have that happiness for myself, it is a grim decision but it was decided a long time a go.
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XxSoaringHeartxX Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student General Artist
You may have decided fate, but if someone secretly likes you, the fate you have chosen might as well be changed, but you have to be patient for that.
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mechanicalmasochist Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
yes but that's not enough either
I've had a few people like me before however I simply didn't like them,

I couldn't be with someone I didn't like
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XxSoaringHeartxX Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student General Artist
Then go as you please, I just wanted throw an idea at you.
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TimberWolfeTiger Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I made peace with being lonely... yeah... still lonely.
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Six-and-Sticks Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm petrified talking to guys I like. The last time I tried I actually crash hugged him then ran away. Never seen him again since. :iconweirdplz:
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Six-and-Sticks Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I know a lovely lady whose first kiss was on her wedding day.
I'll be 20 in December, and I've been in only one relationship but I never really took it seriously. It was a deterrent in a way, really. :U
But trust me on this one, if you're the type of person I believe you are, which is similar to my own disposition, we're much better off with waiting for true love :3
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ToothyGrins Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I'd love to be able to say it's okay, that one day you'll find a companion, that everybody finds that special someone eventually. But I can't. I don't know if it'll mean anything, but what I can say is you're not the only one who will be forced to find contentment in being forever alone. I'm nearly 18 and I've never even so much as held hands with someone who even remotely felt anything for me. I've never been kissed, I've never even had a relationship. I'm convinced being alone is my only talent.

I doubt you'd take it up with me, you haven't the slightest clue who the hell I am (I'm just a fan). But if you are ever feeling lower then dirt, know that we're in something of the same boat and I'm more then willing to share a conversation with you. Seriously. I've learned that a lot of the time those that share the same problems as you are often time's strangers. I hope you'll keep that in mind.
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mechanicalmasochist Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
sorry to hear you are in the same situation.
though it is no comfort to know it will always be this way either.

because without happiness what is there?
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ToothyGrins Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Sometimes I feel I'll spend my entire life trying to find a reason to live it. Some days I take it better than other days. I've learned simply to take advantage of the little things that bring me joy, like animals for example. I love animals. Without them I don't know where I would be.

But I know what you mean. There will never be any true comfort for the unloved. It's something that can't be understood until you've lived it. It's the worst, most empty, hollow feeling in the world. It's almost as hard to find someone who really gets even a fraction of what you feel. Pity and consoling isn't the same as true recognition.
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moonstripethecat Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
and also i have no one to feel in love with tho :c
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moonstripethecat Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
aww flighty if i were a boy i would like u but sadly im a girl tho 3':
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Katsyune Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Awe! Flighty! You'll find someone! Don't worry! I thought the same thing over the summer, but look at meh now!
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Sunheart1 Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2012
i feel ya
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kiyokimaus Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:hug:
If you ever need to talk to me... You can. Being lonely sucks. I hate it too. I'm sure you will find the courage.
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Shaydetehkat Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
aww, flighty. dont worry, ive never been in a relationship either. but it makes me feel sad wen i notice ppl r cutting :( some my friends used to cut, but i kinda helped them by saying u r luved. and now everyday they draw a butterfly on their wrists so they dont cut anymore and it satisfies them :)
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flamedragontamer Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2012
It's alright,I mean there are plenty of people out there that are older than you that still aren't in a relationship. I'm already twenty-one and I'm still single. So no matter what be strong and continue to move forward, Flighty.


(I hope that helped out some what. :iconsweatplz:)
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LunaBluex Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2012
I know how you feel bro.
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foxwub Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2012  Student General Artist
i know how you fell bro... it fells awful....
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sirensirony Featured By Owner Nov 9, 2012  Student General Artist
That moment when you are feeling the exact same way, i'm still in highschool though.
People were trying to get my attention for something and saying my name, I heard but I thought "Theres not way THEY would want to talk to ME."
Turns out, once I heard them say "Is she deaf?!" I turned around and all they wanted to do was insult me.
Well theres that.
Any realationship I have had lasts no time at all.
And the people I love most who like me back are dating already.
The hell life.
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Six-and-Sticks Featured By Owner Nov 10, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
One reason I am happy to be out of high school, Rain. People are hella nicer post secondary, and even try to include you in their conversations if you are sitting near them sometimes.
20 and single as hell, but I've gotten to be so much happier after high school.
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sirensirony Featured By Owner Nov 11, 2012  Student General Artist
I've heard. School seems to get better though, I remember how awful middle school was, elementary school was terrible too, life seems to get better though. In a different way.
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WolvesPrideStudios Featured By Owner Nov 8, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
:iconimsorryplz im so sorry this is happening to you! just wait for the right day to come, dont give up hope and be true to yourself

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WolvesPrideStudios Featured By Owner Nov 8, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
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Azailiathefox Featured By Owner Nov 8, 2012  Student General Artist
*has been lurking and fav bombing for a while but never really comments because she is shy* Well, not everyone is lucky in love. I'm a little younger than you, but I've never had a crush or been in a relationship of any sort. Shoot, I barely have any friends. Most of me old friends ignore me like I'm dead and gone. I really only have a handful of people who truly care about my feelings, wants, and needs. I see people like you a lot on DA, talented, smart, creative, can actually animate, and I wish I could be that good. but I'm not. Maybe I never will be. I don't know. All I know is that I am a shy shorty who is scared of anything bigger or in more power than her. The only talent I have is drawing, and I don't even think I'm that good. There's a long way to go, and I'm not sure if I can make it sometimes. With my low self-esteem and my low motivation, I get next to nowhere. People I don't even know say they hate me because I have better than average grades. I really don't know where I'm supposed to be in life right now. All I know, is that it's inspiring artists like you that keep me alive inside when I see that you are furthering. It means that even if you are very talented, there is still room for improvement. And I don't know how far I have to go, but I know it's far. Don't give up. Peace be with you.
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